"Hi Amanda, I know you don't know me but I am Elwood's daughter. Cleve was my first cousin. I moved away very young so I don't have a lot of memories of him, but the ones I have are very good. He always had scruffy hair and a huge smile on his face. He would alternate between teasing and terrifying us little kids. He was a great guy. This site was a beautiful idea. I hope you get comfort." This made me smile! Thank you so much for sharing. It sounds so much like the dad I remember growing up.